Reveal yourself
Don’t add
Take away
If you want to find your unique style
Don’t add
Take away
Finding your unique style is about your ability to reveal yourself
About presenting yourself to the world as the real you
And that involves peeling back the layers
So finding your unique style is brave
It’s about being you in the world
which can be scary
To be clear
your unique style is not
well dressed
smartly turned out
stylish
acceptable
presentable
perfect
impeccable
although it may be any or all of those things
Your unique style
is who you uniquely are
which involves revealing yourself
Not hiding
or looking like everyone else
Your ability to reveal yourself
rests on your bravery to overcome
doubt
fear
shame
worry
anxiety
all those layers that we acquire over the years
Start to peel them off
It may involve letting go of how you present yourself to the world
in order to reveal yourself
your true self
which doesn’t depend on the approval of others
To let you in on a little secret
Others aren’t waiting to give you approval
They don’t care at all
They don’t mind what you do
They’re too busy thinking about themselves
As we all are
It’s only what you’re thinking about others
that might stop you from revealing yourself
So if I say to you now
that no one is watching
Wouldn’t you just go for it
Reveal yourself
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