Dress like an A-lister, and why we are all A-listers now

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How to dress like an A-lister

A beautiful collection of clothes

A beautiful collection of clothes, like we think an A-lister would wear, must be something that we all long for.  Judging by the number of articles written on creating a perfect capsule wardrobe or on clearing out the clutter, women feel that the clothes that they have in their wardrobe and what they wear could do with either some fine tuning or the services of a bulldozer.

What we wear is fundamental to our life-experience.  Our clothes and our emotions are closely intertwined, in a close dance with each other day in day out.  We know this because when we sigh, “and I don’t have a thing to wear,” it is usually the final straw in feeling out of sorts with oneself, which started earlier in the day with something else entirely.

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How to rock the 1970s fashion vibe in a 2020 way // How to wear 1970s fashion to suit your body shape

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Fashion comes and goes.  Decades come and go and at the moment, the 1970s are having a revival.

The 1970s, or the “me decade” as Tom Wolfe called it, began with women having a wide choice of what to wear so that they no longer had to conform to one look or style in fashion at that moment.   They could be whoever they wanted to be on any given day.

The gypsy look flourished, hand crafts, exotic looks.  At the same time, the alternative to this expressive look was the rise of the mix and match capsule wardrobe.

One of the aspects of 1970s fashion that I admire is that it reflects, to me, an equality of the sexes.  80s fashion somehow looks like women have to be like the boys to join the game: big shoulders, large hair and high heels designed to leave you in no doubt at all about who was in charge.  Powerplay.

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Retail Therapy:

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If you feel you need an emotional pick me up, deal with your mind first and once you have done that, go and make a purchase that makes your heart sing.  But don’t mix up how your mind is feeling with buying clothes.

Retail Therapy – like throwing emotions at our clothes

We throw a lot of emotions onto our clothes.  The most obvious example is retail therapy.  As you probably know, the idea behind retail therapy is that buying something, anything (but often clothes), makes us happier.  So we buy in order to feel better.  It’s like a short cut, “I feel bad, I want to feel better, I buy something, I feel better”.

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How to shop the Summer Sales

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It’s Sales Time and the (online) sales season is with us.

You may be grateful not to have to go out shopping anymore, or you may really miss being able to pop in to your favourite store and peruse the rails.

We are certainly living in unusual times.

Different countries are in different stages of lockdown, work has transferred to home working as much as possible.

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How to find your unique style

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How to find your unique style in 3 easy steps

Having spoken to many clients and friends over the years , it seems that looking and feeling really great every day on a consistent basis is a struggle that you all face at some point.  Quite often, if I ask what one wardrobe dilemma they would like addressing, women say, ‘How to dress for me and know what my unique style is’.

Many of my clients, and you may be the same, think that they have have nothing to wear, or dislike everything that they see when they open their wardrobe each morning.

Most commonly they think that they don’t have enough clothes.  Or don’t have what everyone else has.  Or it’s because they are overweight.  Or underweight.  Or that they don’t have enough time to shop.  Or that they don’t know what to buy when they do shop. But it’s none of those….

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The Parisian Woman’s Summer Style Guide

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The Parisian Woman’s Guide to Style

or, 5 items you need in your wardrobe to guarantee summer styling success.

Streamline your summer wardrobe following Parisian women’s guide to style

Parisian women are renowned the world over for the chic, classic approach to life and dressing.  If you want to look stylish all summer and are slightly at a loss how to go about it, then take a leaf out of every Parisian woman’s style book.

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Positive Body Image

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Wearing great clothes is a positive experience

I was thinking this morning how putting on clothes that make us feel great is such a positive experience.

As women we know that a positive body image is really important.

Important both for ourselves and as a legacy to pass on to other women: to our daughters, to nieces, to cousins, sisters, and outside of the family to female colleagues and employees.

Why don’t we do that though?  Why don’t we intentionally create a positive body image and help and affirm other women at the same time?

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Stop feeling guilty about clothes you don’t wear

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Stop feeling guilty about clothes you don’t wear

How many of you have clothes you don’t wear in your wardrobe?  It’s not just me is it?

I have a couple of items in my wardrobe that are too small for me and don’t fit me.  I don’t wear them, but I keep them.

One is a beautiful printed navy silk wraparound dress.  I absolutely love it.  Only problem is I have only worn it in one period of my life where I lost a lot of weight suddenly and unintentionally.  I bought the dress at the point where I might have been my slimmest.  Everything was smaller: my bust; my waist; my hips.

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How working mums succeed at work by paying attention to what they wear at home

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Did you know you can succeed at work by paying attention to what you wear at home?  If you are a busy working mother you probably have some degree of awareness and control over your work image.  You want to look good and turn up looking like you’re ready to get going and give it 100%.

But what are you wearing at the weekend?

Are you paying as much attention to what you wear on Saturday and Sunday as you are Monday through Friday?

This post will:

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10 Clothing Challenges while you are spending more time at home

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10 mini styling challenges – image of shop mannequins with red lipstick

Warning, you may find this post requires you to take action, but I challenge you to give it a go!

Time at Home

My thoughts at this time are very much around the global pandemic.  I am very happy spending time at home.  I work from home, mostly.  So I am used to being here.  And I am very happy with, and enjoy being in, my creativity.  So, mostly I am ok.  I have had a few low moments, when I have wondered how our current life situation will be resolved, but mostly the Coronacoaster has been kind to me.

However, I have noticed my energy levels going up and down more than normal.  I am intentionally eating well and trying not to resort to rubbish food to give me an energy surge to better get through my day while I am at home.  I’ve reduced the amount of alcohol I am drinking too.  I really proud of that.  I want to be able to focus on being in the moment, and to be able to be fully aware of my experience.  That has been a great thing.

Why I’m struggling with what to wear at home

But one area, surprisingly, that I have had more difficulty with is in what to wear each day while I am at home.  Isn’t that crazy?!

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