Unique style
You can see it in another woman
but perhaps not in yourself
To you, you are a raggle taggle bunch of thoughts and emotions
and random clothes
Others don’t see you like that
all the inside bits
Understanding your unique style involves
taking a leap over the ditch of emotions and thoughts
and seeing ourselves from the other side
Understanding your unique style involves
observing yourself at a distance
from the other side of that ditch
What do you see
Observe yourself for a moment
What are you thinking
Get rid of the first few thoughts
the negative ones
These ones
Look at your hair it needs a cut
and
Are you really still wearing that
Observe yourself for a little bit longer
Watch yourself moving talking being
You might start to feel how you feel as the other you
Carefree Happy Enough Full
What are you thinking as you are watching the you on the other side of the ditch
Are you watching what you are wearing
Thinking what you are thinking
Observing how you exist
What comes up
I see myself in a dress
always a dress
I might have a shock one day when it’s trousers
Working Trousers… coming soon
A dress
I feel good in my skin
At one with my body
Healthy
That there is the unique me
In a dress
At one with my body
Feeling good in my body
That feeling of feeling good in my body
motivates everything I do in my work
I’m motivated to help other women feel the best they can
In a short dress which is moving in the breeze
At one with myself
With the elements
Encouraging and empowering others
It can’t be taken away from me
What is yours?
Go back to you in the picture
What are you doing thinking feeling saying shouting creating
Start from the unique you
Every time
When we feel lonely
I think we are lonely from ourselves
We miss ourselves
are not in touch with ourselves
but assign that loneliness to others
Find your unique you
You are enough
Just as you are
In my post on Your Unique Style I write about finding your unique style, about why we don’t find it, about stepping into it and becoming it. If you’d like to read the full post on Finding your Unique Style and read more on how to develop easy ways to develop positive body image it is available here.
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